Has Anyone Seen My Glasses?

Trying to survive old age
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People living in glass houses should consider drawing the curtains.
If you dream you’ve found a toilet, don’t use it. What a great piece of advice. It hasn’t happened to me so far, but with age and the necessity of getting up in the middle of the night it can only be a question of time! Sir Thomas Beecham famously said that you should… Read more
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I put the pro in procrastinating!
Procrastination is an excellent word. The dictionary definition is: To put off intentionally and intentionally the doing of something that should be done. Should be done – that’s the key. I prefer to call it displacement activity – after all I should clear out that drawer but on the other hand I probably don’t need… Read more
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UMBRAGE! I’d rather go to Ambridge*
Umbrage – it’s a good word, it could be a town in Italy or a herb, one might ask ‘How is the sauce?’ and hear the reply ‘Very good, but it could do with a little more umbrage’. However, taking umbrage is a common reaction today but it is difficult to know when one is… Read more
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ALWAYS LOOK ON THE BRIGHT SIDE OF LIFE!
It can become more and more difficult to find things to laugh about as we get older – unless we discount accidentally seeing our reflection in a mirror! We have to take our pleasures where we find them. One of my favourite pastimes used to be eavesdropping – unfortunately even with my hearing aids in… Read more
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LIVING WELL IS THE BEST REVENGE
Is it just me or do other people have fantasies of being in a position of power over someone who has somehow belittled them in the past? The man you fancied who didn’t fancy you back or the sales assistant who looked down her nose as she said she didn’t think they would have anything… Read more
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Sometimes I feel like an escapee from a home for the permanently bewildered.
Life becomes more and more of a mystery to me as the years go by – some days I can waste hours looking for the pen that I was writing with a minute ago and that has now, inexplicably, vanished or the loaf of bread that I bought yesterday is nowhere to be found! And… Read more
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It’s a dog’s life.
Now that is becoming easier to choose your identity I would like to identify as a Labrador. What’s not to like about that – plenty of love, nice warm bed, lots of exercise and most important of all masses of food – not just what’s given to you but whatever you can steal as well.. … Read more
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What Goes Around Comes Around.
We took care of our children when they were young and needed us, but as soon as the table turns and we get old (at least in their eyes) they think we are incapable and want to interfere with our lives. The is an ad on the radio where a man rings his mother ‘Hi… Read more
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Are you an Endangered Species?
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Bucket List anybody?
I’ve never had a bucket list – I can’t think that I am alone in having the unrealistic and unlikely belief that I, uniquely among the human race, am immortal. If I had a strong faith I would presumably believe that I was going on to a better (or maybe worse) place, but whilst I’d… Read more
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Mad dogs and Englishmen!
Doesn’t matter how depressed you are, a dog will always cheer you up – I have five black Labs – they are good natured, enthusiastic, loving and incredibly greedy and my youngest Incy is not just a glass half full dog, but a glass over-flowing dog! At a trip to the Vet she’s ‘Oh goody,… Read more
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MUSTN’T GRUMBLE. WHY NOT?
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HIDDEN DEPTHS?
Some people have hidden depths, but I think I have not very well disguised shallows. I suffer from FTTTSD – Failure to take things seriously disorder. I do try to concentrate on the more serious things in life but I am very easily distracted. If I had been born seventy years later I would undoubtedly… Read more
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Stop Global Whining!
We’ve always been a nation of moaners – nothing wrong with that – it’s good to ring up a friend and have a good moan, but whining is something else. Moaning is cathartic, whining isn’t. It doesn’t even sound nice. People in romantic novels sometimes moan with pleasure (at least they did a hundred years… Read more
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The Good Old Days?
It’s a phrase you hear so often, particularly in my age group – The Good Old Days – things were so much better in the Old Days! But were they? Rose tinted hindsight can make us believe that everything about our youth was golden. Life was so much simpler then – in some ways it… Read more
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Age isn’t a number it’s an attitude
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After a certain age, if you don’t wake up aching in every joint, you’re probably dead!
When my son and grandchildren were little there was a breakthrough moment when they could dress themselves. In the dark recesses of my memory I seem to recall a film about a man whose life goes backwards and he ends up as a baby. Judging by the difficulty I have putting my socks on in… Read more
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BAH HUMBUG!!!
Sometimes it feels as though life just has it in for you. We have all been through it for the last couple of years and just when you are beginning to see light at the end of the tunnel the Grinch in the form of Omicron jumps up to bite you. The news is nothing… Read more
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Non, je ne regrette rien – well not much anyway!
I’m willing to bet that nobody ever went to their death bed wishing that they’d spent more time watching day time television. My mind has been quite sharply focused during the past day or two because of a near death experience. The amazing wind recently brought down an enormous lime tree in front of my… Read more
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Life is not a fairy tale. If you lose your shoe at midnight, you’re drunk!
Nothing keeps you on your toes like grandchildren. They have a directness about them that one’s contemporaries don’t have. None of my friends have ever asked when I’m going to die of if they can have something of mine after I’m dead. They also have a fairly hazy concept of time – I was asked… Read more
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The Ascent of Man
The summer isn’t the best time to write – at least not while coming out of a pandemic. Or maybe that’s just me – the joy of seeing friends, of going to restaurants, shopping, travelling (at least within this country – I’m not sure I’m ready for abroad yet because I find the rules far… Read more
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Paradoxically Speaking.
According to the dictionary the definition of a paradox is: a seemingly absurd or contradictory statement or proposition which when investigated may prove to be well founded or true.And: A two word paradox is an oxymoron. Got to love an Oxymoron for the name alone! *************** A classic contemporary paradox is the situation with the… Read more
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Why do they call it beauty sleep when you wake up looking terrible?
I hate beauty products – they are expensive and they lie. Apparently, beauty is only skin deep but what do people want – a pretty pancreas, an attractive appendix, a stunning spleen, a lovely liver? I’m a very shallow person, so skin deep will do for me. Unfortunately (for my bank balance!) I’m one of… Read more
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I AM A DINOSAUR
It didn’t happen overnight, but the realisation that I am a dinosaur has crept up on me over the past few years. I was brought up in what now seem like prehistoric times. My mother wasn’t around very much and we were in the charge of Nanny and our territory was the nursery and anywhere… Read more
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It’s a Topsy Turvy World!
When Shakespeare wrote about the seven ages of man it seemed quite clear on the surface but when you look closely it is more like the seven ages of contradiction. No sooner do you learn a new skill than it is all change. When a baby burps the parents ooh and aah and congratulate the… Read more
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If only closed minds came with closed mouths!
Sex education at my school was a diagram drawn on the blackboard of rabbits mating. I was brought up on a farm so I had some idea of what went on, but my generation were incredibly ignorant. It took me years to work out what lesbians could possibly do, although I did have a fantastic… Read more
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Are you a town mouse or a country mouse?
Are you a country mouse or a town mouse or do you have a foot in both camps? QUESTION A B C What kind of car do you drive? Latest spec 4 x 4 Five year old 4 x 4 Ancient Land Rover Defender What’s in the warming oven of your Aga? The… Read more
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Life is far too important to take seriously.
It will not come as a surprise to anyone who knows me to learn that I was a bit of a rebel at school. In fact, I got expelled. I was caught one evening in the Japanese Garden after I had persuaded Terry, the boy who delivered the meat, to come there and teach me… Read more
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COVID BRAIN
My son used to say that I had the concentration span of a goldfish – I think this might be a bit unfair to goldfish. Particularly at the moment. I have noticed things getting far worse during Covid. The plots of television ads are about the most challenging things I can manage. There was one… Read more
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Does it ever get cold on the moral high ground?
We’ve all been there – yes, you have – the disapproving look you give when your best friend’s had too much to drink. Just like you’ve never done that! I’m only human, you take the moral high ground but they are smug.It’s all about perspective. I’m only human You take the Moral High Ground They… Read more
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What a bummer!
This is a different sort of post – hopefully it will make you smile but also maybe think a bit about the sort of medical things that I, for one, try not to think about!The whole procedure was fairly unpleasant but worth doing whatever the result. As they say Knowledge is power. 20/10/20At the moment… Read more
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Go on, you’ll enjoy it!
Live and let Live has always been my motto. Obviously if someone told me they were going to rob a bank I would probably try to dissuade them, I might even ring the police if I thought they were serious. Although I suppose it would depend on how I was feeling about banks at the… Read more
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The four stages of man are infancy, childhood, adolescence, and obsolescence.
Nobody plans on becoming obsolete, but suddenly we are. One minute we are at the cutting edge of life – right up there with the ‘in crowd’ then suddenly we are old farts. Sometimes I feel that I should be put in a glass box and trotted round to schools as a piece of living… Read more
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The More I Think the More Confused I Get.
It’s not necessary for us oldies to understand everything that goes on in the modern world, but one doesn’t want to live life in a state of total confusion. We have little Tuk Tuks for tourists round our way which seem to me to be more useful and more fun that Tik Tok, but then… Read more
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A BUSYBODY’S WORK IS NEVER DONE.
What with the heatwave, grandchildren and the autumn harvest my few remaining brain cells have gone into meltdown and are hiding in the dark recesses of my brain. Like the Elephant’s Child I was born with satiable curtiosities. Kind people might refer to this as taking an intelligent interest in things, but unfortunately owing to… Read more
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If I’m not Woke, please don’t wake me!
I think I’d really prefer to stay asleep. Living in a rural part of England our main topics of conversation as we idly pick straw from our hair are usually about chickens or fly-tipping. Subjects we find fascinating. But I have always led a rich fantasy life. As a child I was constantly rescuing people… Read more
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Would Mr Darcy send a Dick Pic?
In the days of Jane Austen courtship was a gentler and more elegant affair (albeit possibly more commercial – pity the poor girl who was destined to remain a spinster or become a governess). After Mr Darcy proposes to Eliza Bennett and has been turned down he writes her a letter which he hands her… Read more
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Common Sense is not so Common.
Graduates from the University of Stating the Bleeding Obvious. Now there’s a pandemic. So much that ‘research shows’ or ‘scientists claim’ appears to be simple common sense. For example, we’re told that people in care homes are more vulnerable to this virus – what exhaustive research went into finding that out? Every death is a… Read more
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The Past is a Foreign Country
When I think back to my childhood and compare it to life today I can’t imagine how any of us thrived. How the world has changed – Not so long ago I was sitting in my office listening to Radio 4 discussing periods, vulvas and vaginas! I very much doubt that my parents ever discussed… Read more
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Grumpy Old Woman
This Spring, amidst the virus, I’m definitely channelling my inner grumpy old woman. The list of things that make me grumpy grows daily. People wearing masks and gloves and then picking over fruit and veg with them on as if just wearing the gloves makes them safe. Then driving off still wearing the gloves. And… Read more
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SOME REASONS TO BE CHEERFUL DURING SOCIAL DISTANCING – SOME RANDOM THOUGHTS
In order to survive this virus we have to think of ways to keep ourselves amused: Jokes are one way and some people seem to be able to find the best ones. My mobile, laptop and PC ping several times a day with things that make me laugh. Clothes are making me cheerful too –… Read more
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Your Grandparents went to war, all you are being asked to do is sit on a couch. You can do this
I live alone so in some ways self-isolation is a bit more of the same. I can go to bed when I want and get up when I want and slob about in old t shirts and trackie bottoms – so no change there then! I’m saving money by not going to the hairdresser, going… Read more
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You’re only young once, but you can be immature forever
I started writing this in those distant days before the dreaded virus hit us! Now that the first feelings of shell-shock and fear have dissipated somewhat and the human spirit is beginning to triumph in lots of small ways I thought that I would attempt to finish this and then moving forward try to find… Read more
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Older and Wiser?
I‘d like to think old age does bring wisdom. The Chinese have great respect for the elderly but in this country it is only too easy to become invisible and ignored with age. I’m determined that won’t happen to me so this year I’m trying to learn new things. To be precise – two new… Read more
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EMOJIS
Emojis – What’s the Emoji for ‘What the f*** does this mean? If you Google emojis to try and find out what they are trying to say they give you helpful definitions such as ‘Grinning Face’, ‘Grinning Face with big eyes’, ‘Grinning face with smiling eyes’ and finally ’Beaming face with smiling eyes’ That is… Read more
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FOMO vs JOMO
I only learnt what FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) meant a few years ago, but now there is the even better JOMO (Joy of Missing Out). That wonderful feeling when you know you’ve got an evening in front of the fire with a good book and don’t have to go and have drinks with the… Read more
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Age Inappropriate
So, Christmas has come and gone – all jolly good fun and filled with family but it seems to put the rest of life on hold for at least a month. If, heaven help you, a plumber or electrician is required, it will always have to be in the New Year. Thank goodness for our… Read more
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I was thinking of buying a German Shepherd, but I didn’t want to learn another language just to have a dog.
Someone I know told me the other day that while on holiday in Spain he developed an ear infection after swimming. He was recommended to go to an English speaking doctor in the resort. When he went into his office he announced “I’m Mutt and Jeff” the doctor smiled politely and said ‘Good morning Mr… Read more
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The most memorable days usually end with the dirtiest clothes.
Dirty, smelly, noisy – no, these are not the three dwarves that Snow White rejected but adjectives that describe the countryside. I am a farmer’s daughter and I played in mud as a child and I live with mud as an adult. I’m used to mud and noise and smells. I know that some people… Read more
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You don’t stop laughing when you grown old, you grow old when you stop laughing.
They say that 70 is the new 50 and certainly my grandmother was an old lady at 70 and spent most of her time reading or knitting. The most exercise she took was a short walk, probably leaning on the arm of her daughter. I know people in their 80s (and in one case 90s)… Read more
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